facebook IS MY 8-LETTER-WORD for psychotherapy

Maybe my college classmate’s fate could have been a lot more different if the advent of facebook is long before he committed suicide. Of course that was sad and morbid and very confidential. On my case Facebook has always been my constant companion. A ventilation of my rage, happiness, hate, sarcasm, failure, success and everything that my hypothalamus can detect. That’s why on my first anniversary in this social network I gathered some of the most liked and most commented status I had.

• You can't fake happiness in as much as you can't fake love...

whatever you do, even if you exhaust even the tiniest love you can give,

if everything is fake...

i bet and i am evil-damn sure it will end.

• There are things that money can not buy...

Money doesn't buy class.

• ‎I'll live one day at a time, little by little, bit by bit my heart will forgive and my soul will get healed and someday i will look back and regret nothing because i know i'd loved them even if they hated me.

• If you happen to see my worst side that means you've already seen me human.

• If things get into rough way...WORK IT OUT and deal with it...not every morning is breakfast in bed and not every night is a bed of roses...love is best given during tears and pain.

• I wonder if there are really things in life that we have to regret...are they purely choices? or coincidences? I believe that nothing really happens accidentally. But either way they are presuppose by a Supernatural being...therefore, good or bad….work it out...nothing lasts long among the two.

• He who loves much,does much.

• God doesn't make mistakes he made you exactly the way He wants you to be, and this goes with every mountain and tree, every sand and stone, every man and woman, every dick and tit and every queer and dike..

• Sometimes i preferred to be foolish thinking and believing that people who love me actually love me...

• No one can dictate how to live your life...do what really makes you happy you're only given the chance to live once.

• Dream more while you are awake.

• ‎"In the end what is important are not the thing that you get, but what you've become as a person."

• life is temporary, if things are going smooth and good enjoy them cause they won't last longer, and if things are going rough and bad its okey don't panick they won't last either.

• Sometimes i want to live my dreams at night and dream my life in the morning.

• You have to lose something when you give...that doesn't mean you're becoming less of who you are but eventually you will find out that you end up being complete..

• Sometimes nightmares won't stop even if you're awake...

• Last night i dreamed a dream,in a breezy night while sitting on a rocking chair under a paper tree i was holding my pen trying to finish my nobel, suddenly the rain pours and i rushed inside, and naggingly you gave me a towel and a hot tea, i was i about to close my eyes when I've heard you say,"i love you old man."… i wish dreams are reality and realities are dream.

• It doesn't give me pleasure seeing you in pain,but i want to see you suffer and change...

• Sometimes i see myself smiling in pain and crying in laughter...

• BEWARE: Karma is one time big time.

• Rainy days are coming time to whistle and think about life...goodbye bad memrie's of summer...hello sweet rains...

• At the end what is important are not the things the you get but what you've become as a person.

• ‎Sometimes you have to fall from d mountains to realize what you are climbing for. Obstacles are placed in our way to see if what we want is really worth fighting for, from every wound there's a scar and every scar tells a story, a story that says...

"I was deeply wounded but I survived."

• I'm chasing after enough strength between loving you and loving myself a little bit more...

don't pay me back...

just love me more:(

• ‎I get really upset sometimes, and i admit that i can be shitty, talk bullshit and scream incredibly...but i want you to know that I'm human, i hate, i love, i cry, i smile, i spit and spunk...love me or hate me either way you still think of me..

• In this world sometimes you're down, up sometimes...just be careful how you treat those who are down right now because you might be with them the next morning you wake up.

• ‎Sometimes things are not really what they seemed to be...they are unreal...concealing a fake reality and covering a dreadful face...they a mere illusions.

• Never regret committing mistakes because if you learned from them...

mistakes become right.

• Never regret a thing that was once made you happy…

• ‎Love is never having to say I'm sorry...

• I wasn't looking for a sun that would light up my day, I'm looking for a moon that would brightens my long and darkened night...i wish one day...i wish.

• I’m so sick of this game...no aces, no kings not even a hint of winning it...never again after this...it sucks.

• No aces, no kings not even a hint of winning it...

• Sometimes we have to be cruel just to be kind...

• Life is short...so don't hold back...forgive like you have amnesia...believe like a kid...love like crazy and never regret anything that made you happy.

• Eventually things will gonna be alright..wounds will get healed and sorrow will turn to happiness and the situation will become a blessing...

• ‎I'll just exhaust my night...drink beer, smoke weeds indulge with orgasmic feasting with my erotic fantasies until i drop and fall to sleep , float and forget every frustration...

happiness MADE simple

The world we live nowadays is a collection of chaos and stressors. People live the same day twice. A catastrophe. The so-called routine: work; earn money; get old; and eventually die. There seemed to be nothing more in this life. We rushed and bothered ourselves with a lot of things in this earth. We exhaust our last strength and drain our last drop of blood and sweat. And at the end we face the mirror, glance at our wrinkled face and grey hair, then we have nothing than a few days left. We took our journey erroneously and we missed to be happy.

We see a lot of people living their lives. They live, but they don’t have a life.

There is a fine line between living and life. Chimpanzees, bees, bugs even trees and the bushes are living, but a life is more. Life means biography and biology. Life means happiness because this is how God designed it. And His greatest purpose is for us to enjoy this journey and have it more abundantly.

The true ingredients of happiness are so simple. Indeed they can be counted on one hand. Happiness comes from within and rests more securely on simple goodness and clear conscience. Selfishness is the number one enemy of happiness. To make another happy is to be happy in one’s self.

Happiness is the only thing that multiplies by division. Many are unaware of the fact that one of the best source of genuine happiness is giving. The widow in the Bible was given a great favor compared to those who donated a huge measure of offering. Because she gave and she lost something as she gave. She felt it and she knows that those pennies are the only things she has. When we give with good intentions and right motives we will feel happy afterwards.

Some people live miserable and seemingly happiness is the most elusive thing for them. They are hunted on their past. They live everyday fretting about what happened yesterday. We can be happy inspite of the unwanted past. Everything happens for a purpose. Forgive and patiently wait for the time that you can really forget. Live one day at a time. Little by little, bit by bit, your heart will forgive and your soul will get healed. Love those people who hate you. Someday you will look back and you can be happy and you can smile because you know you’d love them even if they hated you.

Envy is the number one reason of unhappiness. And jealousy is its cousin. These two are used interchangeably. Envy is you feel unhappy when you see others succeed while jealousy is you are successful but you never had enough you still want to get what others have. To be happy is to get rid of these two.

Many had already tried defining happiness. Millions of self-help books had been published. But still, people struggle is now century age challenge on how to really be happy. They said, family and relationships are the most important things to pay attention to be happy. Some people said self actualization. But are they really are?

William Henry Channing, Chaplain of the U.S. House of Representatives in the middle of the last century said that, "to live contented with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy not respectable, and wealthy not rich; to study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly; to listen to the birds and the stars, to babes and sages with open heart; to bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasions, hurry never, in a world to let the spiritual unbidden and unconscious grow through the common.”

You will notice that no one and nothing can do happiness for you. You must do it for yourself.